My Story

Hi, I’m Amy.

I’m 28.

I have stage 3 breast cancer.

I was living my dream in Seattle working at the University of Washington in the athletic department. Life could not get better than this.

In late November I noticed a lump on my left breast. I wrote it off as dense breast tissue. Then I started to feel some pain. Once again I wrote that off as a poor support from my sports bras (I mean who relates to hating too tight of sports bras haha - where are my ladies at?!). In January I finally called my mom, Liz, and asked her for some motherly advice. Being the amazing mom she is she recommended I get it checked out for peace of mind so I don’t have to keep wondering. Great advice! However…

40 days later I woke up with armpit pain. So I finally decided to do an e-visit for the “peace of mind” my mom originally recommended to me. The doctor I chatted with promptly told me to come in and see a primary care provider that day. So I went and got checked out. But the doctor was never suspicious (verbally) to me that it was cancer. The mass was large and I’m so young. We aren't talking about the stereotypical pea sized lump that's commonly talked about with breast cancer. My mass was wider than a credit card. It's been said there is less than a 1% chance of getting breast cancer as a women under the age of 30. Regardless the primary care provider requested for an ultrasound of my breast and armpit and just to be safe, a mammogram.

I went in the next day - Thursday, February 18th.

And my whole world kind of flipped upside down. I went from being denied a mammogram - they literally laughed at me when I checked in and said even the ultrasound wasn't going to show much since I was too young - to having my radiologist walk in during the ultrasound that I pushed to have and she took one look at the screen and ordered me a mammogram, STAT, before I was even off the exam table.

I knew then that whatever she saw wasn’t great.

After many many “pictures” or scans of my breasts they had me get dressed and walk to another room to speak with a doctor right away. When she walked in I could see on her face that what she was about to say was not good news…

From that moment it’s been a complete whirlwind of ups and downs.

Most days people ask me how I’m doing and honestly, I think I’m still processing. The hardest part was probably realizing that work has to take a back seat right now.

I am forever grateful for my family and how relentless their support is. They keep me sane, focused and inspired.

Beyond my immediate family I can feel the support of so many others. From my family members all over the West Coast, my cousin and her family in India, my friends on the East Coast, my college ride or dies, to my team here in Washington at UW. Your love, prayers and words mean more to me than you will ever know.

I played a sprint sport my whole life. Volleyball teaches you to go as hard as you can for 10-seconds and then take a nice 30-second break. I like moving at that pace. But, breast cancer is different… the doctor’s have told me it’s time to gear up for a marathon.

I know it’s going to be hard. I realize there is so much to learn and adapt to. But I know that with the love I have around me, nothing, NOTHING, is impossible. You all make me feel stronger than ever. Thank you for being here and your unwavering support.